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		<title>The importance of correct hair extension maintenance</title>
		<link>http://9thst.org/2012/04/the-importance-of-correct-hair-extension-maintenance/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Apr 2012 08:30:40 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Beauty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[appearance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hair extension]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hair extension maintenance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hair extensions Australia]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[micro bead hair extensions]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Correct hair extension maintenance helps women maintain a fresh appearance. Proper care and cleaning keeps the hair and the hair extensions Australia looking its best at all times. The process for shampooing the micro bead hair extensions is similar to washing one’s own natural hair. A mild shampoo is recommended for extension maintenance. Using the two [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-115" title="micro bead hair extensions" src="http://9thst.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/photo-150x150.jpg" alt="micro bead hair extensions" width="150" height="150" />Correct hair extension maintenance helps women maintain a fresh appearance. Proper care and cleaning keeps the hair and the hair extensions Australia looking its best at all times.</p>
<p>The process for shampooing the micro bead hair extensions is similar to washing one’s own natural hair. A mild shampoo is recommended for extension maintenance. Using the two will help keep the hair from becoming vulnerable and breaking. Mild hair products in gentle prevent the hair extensions Australia from becoming tangled or matted. While shampooing the hair, careful attention must be paid to the base. Vigorous motion in the base area causes the roots to look rougher. (To find out more about hair extensions see <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hair_extensions" target="_blank">en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hair_extensions</a>)<span id="more-114"></span></p>
<p>A mild conditioner should be chosen for the hair as well. The conditioning process is similar to the routine used in conditioning natural hair. A wide-tooth comb should be used to evenly distribute the conditioner throughout the hair.</p>
<p>Detangling the strands of hair extensions must be done carefully. The base of the hair should be held in place to avoid pulling. The ends of the extensions should be detangled first. From there, the person should gradually move upward toward the base. A wide-tooth comb should also be used for this process.</p>
<p>Maintaining movement and sheen on the ends is challenging as the hair extensions age. Applying a serum toward the end of the strands can help the extensions maintain their shine and movement.</p>
<p>With proper correct hair extension maintenance in place, the hair can last up to six months. Unlike other forms of extensions, no heat or glue is used to add the pieces, and this helps protects the hair from damage.</p>
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		<title>Cheap, Easy Makeup Tips</title>
		<link>http://9thst.org/2012/03/cheap-easy-makeup-tips/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Mar 2012 12:27:14 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Beauty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[buy cosmetics online]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cheap makeup]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cosmetics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[make-up]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Creating a polished visage on a budget is fast and easy with just a few simple tricks and some cheap makeup. Most women do not need a full set of makeup as it is marketed by the major brands. A woman should examine her face in a mirror and decide which qualities she would like [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft  wp-image-110" style="border-image: initial; border-width: 1px; border-color: black; border-style: solid; margin: 5px;" title="make up" src="http://9thst.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/photo1-150x150.jpg" alt="make up" width="200" height="150" />Creating a polished visage on a budget is fast and easy with just a few simple tricks and some cheap makeup. Most women do not need a full set of makeup as it is marketed by the major brands. A woman should examine her face in a mirror and decide which qualities she would like to augment and which she would like to minimize. Oily skin may be powdered and blemishes may be concealed one by one. Heavy liquid foundation is rarely necessary, contrary to the claims of major makeup companies that would have women feeling like they need to hide every inch of who they really are. Makeup is supposed to highlight unique beauty, not make women feel ashamed of their flaws.</p>
<p>In order to distance themselves from these toxic attitudes toward individual beauty, many women have started to buy cosmetics online. There are countless small makeup companies that manufacture organic, all-natural and non-comedogenic cosmetics and are only available online. Since they do not engage in expensive mass advertising, their makeup is inexpensive and made of high-quality ingredients. <span id="more-109"></span></p>
<p>Mineral makeup is incredibly popular because it is natural and contains chemical-free SPF protection. It is impossible not to properly apply this kind of makeup. All one has to do is brush on a light sheen of base minerals to absorb oil and even out the skin tone and then dab denser concentrations of the same mineral formulation onto unsightly blemishes or problem areas.</p>
<p>Mascara, a favorite lipstick and a light sweeping of rosy mineral blush complete this easy, glistening look. Mineral makeup does not crack and flake the way that liquid foundation does, nor does it clog pores or prematurely age the skin. Natural beauty deserves natural makeup that shields skin from the elements without harsh chemicals and high prices.</p>
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		<title>Boat Decals and Stickers to Personalize Your Boat</title>
		<link>http://9thst.org/2012/03/boat-decals-and-stickers-to-personalize-your-boat/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Mar 2012 07:40:37 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Leisure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boat decals]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boat name]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boat stickers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[personalized name]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[waterproof]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Those of you who are boat aficionados will appreciate any product that will personalize that special boat to show everyone on the water that it belongs to you. That&#8217;s when boat decals and stickers really come in handy. (For additional information see www.boatnamesdirect.com.au) Whether you own a yacht, sailboat, power boat, motorboat, or even a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft  wp-image-104" style="border-image: initial; border-width: 1px; border-color: black; border-style: solid; margin: 5px;" title="boat decals" src="http://9thst.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/photo-150x150.jpg" alt="boat decals" width="200" height="150" />Those of you who are boat aficionados will appreciate any product that will personalize that special boat to show everyone on the water that it belongs to you. That&#8217;s when boat decals and stickers really come in handy. (For additional information see <a href="http://www.boatnamesdirect.com.au/" target="_blank">www.boatnamesdirect.com.au</a>)</p>
<p>Whether you own a yacht, sailboat, power boat, motorboat, or even a canoe, these boat stickers and decals are waterproof and are made to stay on your boat even while you&#8217;re cruising through some rough seas. The stickers and decals are usually made of waterproof vinyl to keep them hanging on. You can create your own graphics if you purchase a boat decal kit. These kits carry letters, numbers and many designs and pictures that you can use to decorate your boat the way you want it to be.<span id="more-103"></span></p>
<p>If you would like to have a special name for your nautical friend, you can order a personalized name from an online company or a store that specializes in boat and accessory sales. You can name your boat &#8220;Ladybelle&#8221; and have it written in italics or any other format that you desire. You can even order boat graphics that are really decals and stickers made to form a unique design to make your boat stand out among the crowd while you&#8217;re at the dock.</p>
<p>Many websites will offer the software applications to let you design your own artwork and forward it to the company. You can choose the colors, size and shape of the art and request that it is for your boat. Several boat owners love to have their own names printed right on the boat and this is also possible by doing it online.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s fun to jazz up your boat with pictures and names so that when someone spots you out on the water they&#8217;ll know immediately that it&#8217;s you and your best friend.</p>
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		<title>The Lowdown on Driving Under the Influence</title>
		<link>http://9thst.org/2012/02/the-lowdown-on-driving-under-the-influence/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Feb 2012 10:53:49 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Legal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blood alcohol level]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[driving under the influence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[drunk driving]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever been in a club or restaurant relaxing while enjoying that third or fourth cocktail and begin to wonder if you will be legally able to drive? LEGALLY, is the key word here. You may feel fine, and in reality, be able to operate a motor vehicle well enough to make the trip [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft  wp-image-84" style="border-image: initial; border-width: 1px; border-color: black; border-style: solid; margin: 5px;" title="drunk driving" src="http://9thst.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/photo-150x150.jpg" alt="drunk driving" width="200" height="150" />Have you ever been in a club or restaurant relaxing while enjoying that third or fourth cocktail and begin to wonder if you will be legally able to drive? LEGALLY, is the key word here. You may feel fine, and in reality, be able to operate a motor vehicle well enough to make the trip home without incident. However, in the eyes of the law, you may, in fact, be guilty of driving under the influence, commonly referred to as <a href="http://www.godui.org" target="_blank">DUI</a>. Other terms associated with this event are, operating under the influence, driving while intoxicated or just good old drunk driving.</p>
<p>In all states in the U.S., a blood alcohol level of .08 or higher is a DUI offense (to find out more information the laws and consequences of DUI visit <a href="http://www.dol.wa.gov/driverslicense/dui.html" target="_blank">www.dol.wa.gov/driverslicense/dui.html</a>). These standards will vary from country to country. In some areas, a higher reading, such as .12 is considered an aggravated condition and will turn what is in most cases a misdameanor, into a felony carrying much stiffer penalties. It matters not that you are in complete control of the vehicle.<span id="more-83"></span></p>
<p>As an example, if you are pulled over for a tail or brake light being out and the police officer detects the smell of alcohol upon you, he or she has the right to ask you to perform dexterity testing, usually called field sobriety tests and/or to subject you to a breathalyzer analysis. In most states, failure to comply with these requests will result in an automatic one years suspension of your driving privileges. One must always remember, driving is a privilege, not a right afforded to you under the constitution.</p>
<p>Alcohol is not the only offending substance that can result in your arrest. Drugs whether illegal or prescription, if impairing your driving, is against the law as well. Were you aware you can be charged with DUI for operating not just an automobile, but boats, aircrafts and even bicycles? Depending on the type of device you are operating and the jurisdiction, these indiscretions may carry lighter punishment, but are still illegal. Every year upwards of one and one half million individuals are cited for driving under the influence. Please, always take the necessary precautions so that you are not one of them.</p>
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		<title>Jumping Castles Liven Up Adult Parties</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 11:56:47 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Entertainment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[adult jumping castles Brisbane]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Adult party entertainment is bringing out the kid in all of us. With some adult jumping castles, the adults at a party can have fun jumping and playing as if they were a child again. The adult castles come in many styles and forms to have every adult leaving the party entertained. For an energetic [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft  wp-image-77" style="border-image: initial; border-width: 1px; border-color: black; border-style: solid; margin: 5px;" title="jumping castle" src="http://9thst.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/jc13-150x150.jpg" alt="jumping caslte" width="200" height="150" />Adult party entertainment is bringing out the kid in all of us. With some adult jumping castles, the adults at a party can have fun jumping and playing as if they were a child again. The adult castles come in many styles and forms to have every adult leaving the party entertained.</p>
<p>For an energetic form of entertainment at the next adult party, be sure to check out the adult jumping castles Brisbane for a unique way to entice guest to have fun. It is sure to produce some laughs for an unforgettable day.</p>
<p>From boxing ring castles to slides and tunnels, the fun will never end. Guests can use joust poles and helmets and compete with other guests in the boxing ring jump castle. Some castles have basketball hoops for those sport fanatics to show off their skills with a game of basketball while trying to stay on their feet in a jump castle.<span id="more-76"></span></p>
<p>The castles can be set up and used at almost any event that adults will be present. They make a wonderful way to raise money for some worthy cause. Kids jump castles are found at many festivals, but now someone can include one for the adults to be entertained. Not only will the castles entertain the adults, but they will also get some needed exercise in a fun way.</p>
<p>When someone plans an adult party, he or she needs to add some jumping castles to liven it up. Let the guest know to come dressed for an energetic activity that requires acting like a kid again. They will be so thrilled when they see the jump castles that they will not care about anything else at the party. The jump castles will be the highlight of the party and no other entertainment will be needed</p>
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		<title>Help awaits victims of domestic violence</title>
		<link>http://9thst.org/2012/01/help-awaits-victims-of-domestic-violence/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 07:55:08 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[domestic violence counselling]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[domestic violence prevention]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[help]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://9thst.org/?p=68</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Sadly, domestic violence is a reality in the modern world. Thankfully, the social attitude toward spousal abuse and other forms of domestic violence has gone from openly accepting in the early decades of the 20th century to almost universally un-accepting in the modern era. Even so, instances of domestic violence continue to occur in cities [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://9thst.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/foto.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-69" title="safe shelter " src="http://9thst.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/foto-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>Sadly, domestic violence is a reality in the modern world. Thankfully, the social attitude toward spousal abuse and other forms of domestic violence has gone from openly accepting in the early decades of the 20th century to almost universally un-accepting in the modern era. Even so, instances of domestic violence continue to occur in cities all over the nation involving people of all economic and ethnic backgrounds. If you are a victim of domestic violence, here are two options that you should immediately consider.</p>
<p>Domestic violence prevention is the most effective way of avoiding becoming a victim. (visit <a href="http://www.fahcsia.gov.au/sa/women/progserv/violence/vawag/Pages/default.aspx" target="_blank">www.fahcsia.gov.au/sa/women/progserv/violence/vawag/Pages/default.aspx</a> to find out where you can get help if you are a victim of domestic violence)Trained professionals are waiting to help you through the important transition from being scared and abused to be comfortable and safe. The most obvious way to prevent something from occurring is to remove yourself from the environment in which it occurs. Prevention is about more than just knowing how to defend yourself during confrontations, it is also about knowing how to take preemptive steps toward eliminating the occurrence of confrontations altogether.</p>
<p>Domestic violence counselling is another form of treatment that is directly aimed at getting a person away from possible sources of abuse. (For more information see <a href="http://www.raq.org.au/services/counselling/domestic-and-family-violence-prevention" target="_blank">www.raq.org.au/services/counselling/domestic-and-family-violence-prevention</a>)<span id="more-68"></span> As opposed to preventative measures, counseling pertaining to domestic violence is often performed in the aftermath of an instance of abuse or after a woman has left an abusive environment. Professionals can help victims mentally unravel the bindings of their abuse and allow them to realize that nobody deserves to be mistreated; physically, emotionally or otherwise.</p>
<p>Whether you are fearful of a domestic situation soon reaching a boiling point or are already in the midst of a series of abuse, experts are ready and waiting to help you begin your road to recovery.</p>
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		<title>Show Your Pride &#8211; Wear a Gay Pride Band</title>
		<link>http://9thst.org/Gay-Pride-Band.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Sep 2011 11:13:48 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Human Rights]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[gay]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Gay Pride Band]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Gay Pride Bands are one type of wristband that you can wear to show your true self. This type of band has the six colors of the pride rainbow that have long been associated with the LGBT community &#8212; red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple with the word &#8220;Pride&#8221; clearly ingrained in the bracelet. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-59" title="811300_dykes_at_the_capitol" src="http://9thst.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/811300_dykes_at_the_capitol-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></p>
<p>Gay Pride Bands are one type of wristband that you can wear to show your true self. This type of band has the six colors of the pride rainbow that have long been associated with the LGBT community &#8212; red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple with the word &#8220;Pride&#8221; clearly ingrained in the bracelet. When you wear a Gay Pride Band you are showing that you respect and understand today&#8217;s LGBT lifestyle and that you are happy to be a part of a world where people are accepted for who they are and not for what they are. You don&#8217;t have to live a lesbian, gay, bisexual or trans-gender life to have gay pride, everyone who is welcoming of the lifestyle can wear the bands to show their support.<span id="more-58"></span></p>
<p>In today&#8217;s world it is important for gay couples to have the same rights as everyone else in the world. In America, different states have stood up to support and allow gay marriage in their state constitutions, unfortunately the same freedoms are not available across the country. One way to show that you support gays and their quest to be recognized as couples everywhere they live and travel is by wearing a Gay Pride Band. A single voice is powerful, but the more people that stand behind the voice, the more power that the group will have, so show your support and wear a Gay Pride Band. The small token of your support will mean a lot to the community and will help others to become understanding of the LGBT lifestyle.</p>
<p>No matter where you fit in the lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans-gender lifestyle, you can show your personality by wearing a Gay Pride <a title="Silicone Wristbands" href="http://24hourwristbands.com/">Wristband</a>.</p>
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		<title>What We&#8217;re Working On</title>
		<link>http://9thst.org/projects.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Sep 2011 11:11:44 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Personal Development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[What We're Working]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Our main goal is to share with the world the profound and amazing discoveries of Paul Rosenfels. As a volunteer organization with no outside funding, we&#8217;ve always had to pay our own way since 1973, month after month. That&#8217;s why we ask members to donate $5 per month, and why we charge a nominal fee [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-56" title="1215636_linear_measure" src="http://9thst.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/1215636_linear_measure-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" />Our main goal is to share with the world the profound and amazing discoveries of Paul Rosenfels. As a volunteer organization with no outside funding, we&#8217;ve always had to pay our own way since 1973, month after month. That&#8217;s why we ask members to donate $5 per month, and why we charge a nominal fee for the printed editions of the Center&#8217;s publications. But we have no financial motivation other than to pay the rent. So as long as that&#8217;s taken care of we will make Paul&#8217;s writings available here on the Internet at no charge.</p>
<p>As wonderful as the Internet is, a major problem for a site such as ours is letting people know we&#8217;re here. That&#8217;s going to take time, and we could use some volunteer help and expert suggestions as to how to proceed. So far we have applied to 20 or 30 of the major search engines for inclusion in their indexes. We have also asked major organizations in the social science and mental health professions to mention us if they have a page on Internet resources.</p>
<p>If you would like to help us in this effort &#8212; for instance, if you know of some educational institution that might like to sponsor our site, or you want to beta test some new features for us, or if you just have some good ideas on how we should proceed &#8212; please give us a holler. Thanks.<span id="more-53"></span></p>
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		<title>What Our Members Think</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Sep 2011 11:10:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m not the only person who thinks highly of Paul. Here are some of the things that his friends and students have had to say about the man. Clicking on each name will take you to a complete interview from which the quote was taken. (These interviews were originally published in my 1990 book, . [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-51" title="1186939_lysa_hora" src="http://9thst.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/1186939_lysa_hora-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" />I&#8217;m not the only person who thinks highly of Paul. Here are some of the things that his friends and students have had to say about the man. Clicking on each name will take you to a complete interview from which the quote was taken. (These interviews were originally published in my 1990 book, . In addition to being his friend, Edith Nash and Walter Ross are Paul&#8217;s sister and brother.)<span id="more-50"></span></p>
<p>The thing that strikes me most about Paul was his overwhelming simplicity in life as in his understandings, getting down to that which is most simple, most basic in some way. I was overstimulated by this simplicity.</p>
<p>We can live up to what he stood for by being as true to ourselves as we can be. And having as much integrity and honesty as we can at any given moment. Having the intention of serving ourselves and the people around us with our greatest openness. You know, sometimes we do that by saying we need help.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s very evident to me how a greater understanding of truth and right are needed in the world. I think Paul stood for sanity, and the world needs it.</p>
<p>I think a lot of cynics in society and doomsayers just say, &#8220;Oh, society is useless, let&#8217;s blow it up. It&#8217;s not worth saving.&#8221; But that&#8217;s not what Paul saw about people. He saw their beauty and he saw their goodness and he saw that they wanted something better in their life, the majority of them. That&#8217;s what&#8217;s so wonderful about working with this material.</p>
<p>None of us will probably be here to see this millennium of psychological maturity, but I&#8217;m sure it&#8217;s going to happen. It started in the mind of one person, and it took his lifetime in order to get it out in some form that could be useful or communicated or demonstrated to others. Now it&#8217;s in the mind of maybe twenty other people who are trying to use it in various ways to get it out to the people they&#8217;re involved with. That&#8217;s the way any great system of thinking evolves.</p>
<p>Rather than the conventional world being so big all around you and you being like this tiny little thing trying to protect yourself from it, he showed me the conventional world is like this tiny little thing and you are way out there, like all over the place. And the creative world you&#8217;re in and the creative way of looking at life and looking at people, it&#8217;s like it&#8217;s bigger than the conventional. You&#8217;re beyond it, you&#8217;re free of it.</p>
<p>Paul had by far the most expanded intellect of any of the children in the family. I think that he also identified so closely with my mother and wanted to be the manager of everything &#8212; the role that she had &#8212; to such an extrreme extent. And I think that this added to his difficulty, but I think it also added to his ambition.</p>
<p>For myself, Paul&#8217;s science has been a liberating influence, changing the way I view the human scene. It has brought the harmony of understanding in place of the disharmony of half-knowledge. It illuminates the truly consequential matters of living through a process of magnificent discovery.</p>
<p>Paul just took off like a bat out of hell when the Center started. This was a dream come true for him, wasn&#8217;t it? He was just the most alive guy around. All these new ideas kept churning faster than he could write them down. There was that energy, that intensity &#8212; in poetic terms that magic &#8212; that was happening. The real power of it was happening right before our eyes. There was just this splendid event. It was like Camelot in the making. It had that romance to it, that adventure to it, that excitement, that energy, that power.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t clearly recall what Paul had to say, but I clearly recall that he addressed me directly at one point without knowing my name. . . . Well, by the time I left I realized I was dealing with a whole different level of civilization than I had ever, ever dealt with anywhere.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Although the discussion groups are our most popular activity, counseling has always been the most important service the Center offers. Our fees are minimal and always donated to the Center. We call it &#8220;peer&#8221; counseling not because all opinions are created equal but rather to emphasize that the value of an idea is independent of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-47" title="confessionsofapsychiatrist" src="http://9thst.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/confessionsofapsychiatrist-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" />Although the discussion groups are our most popular activity, counseling has always been the most important service the Center offers. Our fees are minimal and always donated to the Center. We call it &#8220;peer&#8221; counseling not because all opinions are created equal but rather to emphasize that the value of an idea is independent of who&#8217;s expressing it and that we&#8217;re not going to pull rank on you.</p>
<p>Recently, for a new brochure we&#8217;re preparing, a few of our counselors typed up brief statements about how they approach counseling. Here&#8217;s what Bob Fink, who runs our Psychology Discussion Group, wrote:<span id="more-46"></span></p>
<p>To me, peer counseling is a focused process of teaching and learning from others about what it means to be alive. It conveys the rewards that come from a better understanding of human nature to both teacher and student. As a child, I found discussions about the inner lives of characters from history and fiction to be fascinating. As an adult, I am more interested in learning up front about the motives of my fellow human beings. My own experience has been that peer counseling is worthwhile if the student is willing to: explore aspects of his/her homosexuality; grow psychologically; make changes for a better life, and make ongoing commitments of honesty and time in the sharing of information, experience and feelings.</p>
<p>The work that I do in peer counseling is strongly influenced by the writings of Paul Rosenfels and several of his students. While there will be no &#8220;pop quizzes,&#8221; papers due or exams, anyone counseled by me should expect to do some reading of Paul&#8217;s ideas. This will be done at the student&#8217;s own pace. I make a point of this, because his texts have made the study of psychology so real for me.</p>
<p>Jennifer Minichello, who&#8217;s been with us for ten years, wrote:</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been told I have a natural gift for understanding people. What I do know about myself is that I have spent many hours thinking about how I feel and react to things and thinking about and observing others&#8217; reactions and actions.</p>
<p>As a youngster I felt like an outcast in a sea of actions that forced me to be aware of the whys and hows; and to ask myself where do I fit, how do I feel, how can I get another response, what do I want, what is important to me, what is possible. What I have is a lifetime of paying attention to how I work and how others work.</p>
<p>What all people have is the ability and possibility of sharing their experiences, understandings and questions beneficially with others. People have relinquished their natural ability to cultivate this information for and by themselves by leaving it to &#8220;professionals.&#8221; It is possible for all of us to have an effective influence and to be vulnerably open to what we need if we decide to do this work with honesty; without selfishness, self-indulgence and vanity; with respect, forgiveness and in a manner of faith and caring.</p>
<p>John Calhoun is actually taking a break from seeing people, but he wanted to go on record too:</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a social worker who has been a Center member since 1985 and who appreciates many of Paul Rosenfels&#8217; ideas as most useful in helping others formulate and make sense of their problems. I see psychology at its best as an instrument for personal and societal development.</p>
<p>Here is why I am a counselor:</p>
<p>As a child I wondered a lot. Why does the world exist? Why don&#8217;t people care about each other more? Why do children end up with the same religion and politics as their parents? Why don&#8217;t people see how wonderful the world could be if we all worked together? Why do adults strut around in fancy clothes and yet hide their ignorance about, and deny their clumsiness in, everyday human affairs? Why aren&#8217;t there scores of teachers and leaders in every community to help us develop the most precious asset we have, our human potential?</p>
<p>Around the age of ten I decided to become someone who could help people become better human beings. In high school I learned about &#8220;shrinks&#8221; but quickly ruled out that career path because they all seemed such transparent frauds. In college I read about great thinkers like Carl Jung who saw students and tried to help them &#8220;grow&#8221; without forcing a lot of academic mumbo-jumbo and tranquilizers down their throats. Then I met a practicing psychotherapist, Paul Rosenfels, who believed in the same things I did but who had started out 37 years earlier. I learned more from him than I&#8217;d ever learned from my own bumbling efforts to help my friends. In 1970 I opened the East Village Counseling Service.</p>
<p>My approach to counseling is to be totally open and honest, and to talk about anything you want to talk about &#8212; including any and all details of my own life. You may not need much more from me except to be a springboard for your own ideas. Or you may want more direct guidance. I have lots of ideas about how and why people get into trouble with their lives, and we can try out any number of them over time.</p>
<p>I see life as a laboratory where an experiment that fails can teach you as much as an experiment that succeeds. Unlike mental health professionals who need your situation to conform to something they once read in a textbook, I want your life to unfold in a natural and inner-directed way. Many people I see are new and original demonstrations of what an exemplary life looks like. It&#8217;s not my job to dumb them down and make them conform. But if possible I will open doors for them they didn&#8217;t know were blocking their progress.</p>
<p>Psychology is still in its infancy, yet shrinks often think they &#8220;know it all&#8221; simply because they&#8217;ve read the current literature. I don&#8217;t have that problem. I know that human nature is something we&#8217;re just starting to understand. I&#8217;d be delighted if you were among the many people who are changing the world and setting a new standard for what &#8220;human nature&#8221; can accomplish. And if you&#8217;re comfortable with it, you may find yourself counseling me, too.</p>
<p>But aside from my respect for the individual and my refusal to categorize you according to symptoms you display, I feel fully competent to address all the commonplace interpersonal issues that we all face. Bosses, landlords, friends and lovers all add to and detract from the quality of our lives, and deserve to be dealt with as serious subjects.</p>
<p>Whether your problem is not knowing what contribution you want to make to civilization, or not knowing if you can stand your roommate for one more day, I believe I can help you gain new insight into your past, and get better control over your future. I know from long experience that counseling can be a valuable and rewarding experience for us both.</p>
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